Written by John Smyth - January 26, 2023
Menopause is a natural part of life for women and can be a difficult time both emotionally and physically. It's important that husbands are understanding and supportive as their wife enters menopause. Here are some tips on how to help your husband understand menopause:
Educate Yourself – Do some research on the subject so that you can answer any questions he has about it. This will also help you understand what is happening to your body better, so that you can explain it to him in an informed way.
Listen & Validate His Feelings – It's normal for your husband to feel upset or overwhelmed when faced with this new experience. Acknowledge his feelings and talk openly about how the changes might affect his relationship with you or other areas of life. Let him know that his feelings are valid and encourage him to express himself without fear of judgement or criticism.
Ask Him For Support – Explain to your husband how he can best support you during this time. He may not be able to do much physically but could provide moral support by listening, providing comfort, being patient, understanding, etc.
Find Alternatives To Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) – The goal isn't necessarily HRT but rather symptom relief! There are many alternatives such as vitamins/supplements, lifestyle changes (like exercising more), eating healthier foods (like high fiber foods), acupuncture, yoga, hypnosis etc., which can all help alleviate some of the symptoms associated with menopause.
Embrace The Change – Menopause doesn't have to be something scary or intimidating; instead embrace it as a sign of strength and resilience . Make sure your husband understands the positive aspects of this transition so that he can celebrate it with you instead of dreading it.
With patience and love, husbands can learn how to better understand menopause and create an environment where everyone involved feels comfortable talking about these issues openly. Treating each other with respect and kindness is key in any conversation surrounding menopause!